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For this entry, we will discuss about birth order traits. The psychology says that the eldest child more responsible, mature, good leader. While, the middle child more creative, not an over achiever and often felt neglected. Also told youngest child often get away with anything, not independent and often not taken seriously. What you mind about this??? Is it true???
For my opinion, this is not necessarily one hundred percent correct. There are also truth and there also not truth. But, it is depends on the individual and also how the teachings given by a family. Maybe it some truth about said the eldest child more mature because they need to be a good example for younger siblings. They also have a greater responsibility to help parents at home and take care of the precious brother. But, does not mean the middle and youngest children are not mature and responsible. The other children also be responsible if properly being taught and guidance. Example, each children given task to be done. Not only burden to the eldest. This can be taught to all children to be responsible.
Each child has its own personality and not only depends on the birth order trait.Maybe also be relevant but maybe only coincidental. The environmental conditions, time, experience, friends, loving parents and also families that will form the personality of a person. So, we do not rely on this theory alone because what happens to us is determined by ourselves.
Live in happiness and not shadowed our lives with others. The important, be yourself. And, changed for the better for the future. I hope to see you again. Goodbye.
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